Every year 1000s of innocent Indian husbands are charged with false DOWRY cases. Their innocent parents, young sisters & mothers are arrested, jailed without warrant. Some have died. Some have committed suicide unable to bear injustice. The law that was made to protect vulnerable women is being misused by unscrupulous women with connivance of others

Sunday, November 25, 2007

Wife cleans the bank accounts, files for divorce & huge maintenance. Long live feminism


Wife cleans the bank accounts, files for divorce & huge maintenance. Long live feminism



IN THE HIGH COURT OF DELHI AT NEW DELHI

SUBJECT : SECTION 13(1)(I)(A) OF THE HINDU MARRIAGE ACT

CM(M) No.367/2007

RESERVED ON : 02-04-2007

DATE OF DECISION: 17-04-2007

Alok Kumar Jain ....... Petitioner
through: Mr.Sandeep Sethi, Sr. Adv. with
Mr.Anshu Mahajan, Adv.

VERSUS

Purnima Jain ........ Respondent
through: Mr.Harish Malhotra, Sr. Adv. with
Mr.Tanuj Khurana, Adv.

PRADEEP NANDRAJOG, J.

1. Alok Kumar Jain was married to Ms.Purnima Jain at New Delhi. They were blessed with 2 daughters.

2. Alok Kumar Jain was employed as a Senior Manager with Engineers India Ltd. Unfortunately for the couple their daughter, Radhika, suffered from severe hearing loss of both ears. The couple spent considerable money on her treatment. In the year 2000, Alok Kumar Jain, in consultation with his wife, decided that if he took up employment in Abu Dhabi he could enhance his monetary prospects. He tendered his resignation. He received Rs.27 lacs as terminal benefits from Engineers India Ltd. The money was deposited in a joint account operated by the husband and the wife. The husband took up employment in Abu Dhabi. Unfortunately, the couple separated. The 2 daughters are with the mother.

3. The wife filed a petition for divorce under Section 13(1)(i)(a) of the Hindu Marriage Act. She filed an application under Section 24 of the Hindu Marriage Act praying that she be granted interim maintenance @Rs.2 lacs per month. She also prayed that the husband should pay to her Rs.11 lacs for treatment of their daughter Baby Radhika.

4. To sustain the claim she averred that her husband was earning approximately Rs.7 lacs per month in Abu Dhabi. That he was being provided an accommodation free of cost by the employer.

5. In the reply, husband stated that over the last 3 years, the wife had withdrawn approximately Rs.56 lacs from the joint accounts maintained by the couple. That she had exaggerated the income of the husband. That his monthly income was Rs.2.11 lacs. That out of Rs.56 lacs withdrawn by the wife, she had made investments, details whereof was not disclosed to the husband. Not denying his liability to maintain the wife and the 2 daughters, it was stated by Alok Kumar Jain that the wife was having sufficient funds, interest income wherefrom was sufficient to sustain the monthly expenses of the family.

6. By a cryptic order, without calling upon the wife to explain how she had spent Rs.56 lacs which was withdrawn by her from the joint accounts, learned Matrimonial Judge has directed the husband to pay maintenance of Rs.20,000/- per month for the benefit of the 2 minor daughters with effect from the date of the application.

7. In respect of the claim of the wife that Rs.11 lacs be paid for medical treatment of the daughter Baby Radhika, learned Judge has opined that issue would be decided when the wife produces details of the likely expenses supported with the opinion of renowned surgeon.

8. Impugned order dated 13.2.2007 has been challenged by the husband inter alia on the ground that the learned Judge has ignored that the wife had not accounted for Rs.56 lacs withdrawn by her from the joint accounts maintained by the husband and the wife.

9. Since I am remanding the matter for fresh adjudication, lest prejudice is caused to either party, I refrain from discussing the plethora of precedents cited at the Bar by learned counsel for the parties.

10. Law under Section 24 of the Hindu Marriage Act is well crystallized. From the judicial precedents, factors which can be culled out as required to be kept in mind while awarding interim maintenance are as under:-

(i) Status of the parties,

(ii) Reasonable wants of the claimant,

(iii) The income and property of the claimant,

(iv) Number of persons to be maintained by the husband,

(v) Liabilities, if any, of the husband,

(vi) The amount required by the wife to live a similar life style as she enjoyed in the matrimonial home keeping in view food, clothing, shelter, educational and medical needs of the wife and the children, if any, residing with the wife and

(vii) Payment capacity of the husband.

11. Further, where it is noted that the respective spouses have not come out with a truthful version of their income, some guesswork has to be resorted to by the Court while forming an opinion as to what could possibly be the income of the 2 spouses. This guesswork has to be based on the status of the family, the place where they are residing and the past expenses on the children, if any.

12. In the instant case, husband has truthfully disclosed his monthly income in Abu Dhabi i.e. Rs.2.11 lacs per month. While deciding what maintenance has to be paid to the wife who is maintaining 2 daughters, cost of living in Abu Dhabi has to be taken note of.

13. If this was the only fact to be considered, there would have been no problem in sustaining the impugned order. However, there is a problem. The problem is non disclosure of how has the wife spent appropriated Rs.56 lacs over the past 3 years. Admittedly, said amount was available in the joint accounts of the parties. Admittedly, said amount has dissipated.

14. An additional fact to be noted is that the wife and the 2 daughters are living in a flat purchased by the husband, i.e., no rent is being paid by the wife.

15. Further, admittedly, Baby Radhika needs considerable money for her medical treatment. But, on this issue, learned Matrimonial Judge has kept the matter open for adjudication as and when wife provides cogent material in the form of medical opinion supported with evidence as to how much money would be required for the cochlear operation of the daughter.

16. It is not in dispute that 2 accounts were opened in the joint names of the husband and the wife with Corporation Bank, Bhikaji Cama Place and State Bank of India, Vasant Vihar respectively. The second account is a NRE account.

17. From the statement of bank accounts filed by the husband, undisputed position is that between February 2001 to January 2004, a sum of Rs.61,94,011/- was credited in the said 2 accounts. It is also not in dispute that the wife has withdrawn a sum of Rs.56,02,000/- from the 2 accounts between 1.2.2001 to 28.1.2004.

18. From the statement of bank accounts it is further revealed that between 24.3.2003 to 28.1.2004 i.e. in approximately 10 months, the wife has withdrawn Rs.41,78,000/- from the 2 accounts. It would be interesting to note that the wife sought divorce by filing a petition on 29.1.2004.

19. The statement of bank accounts show that between the years 2001 to 2003, the wife has spent Rs.5,25,303/- by making cash withdrawals, paying school fee, electricity and water bills etc. in sum of Rs.5,25,303/-. In this period she has withdrawn or spent Rs.6,12,000/- for purchase of a car, a computer + a hearing aid with FM receiver for Baby Radhika. Further, between March 2003 to March 2007 the wife has withdrawn Rs.9,80,000/-, which approximates to Rs.20,000/- per month for household expenses.

20. In respect of the huge cash withdrawals made by the wife only Rs.18,94,000/- have been accounted for. These are in the shape of 2 fixed deposits totalling Rs.14 lacs + monies deposited in the public provident fund account opened in the name of the children.

21. Thus, an approximate sum of Rs.34,00,000/- remains unexplained.

22. If I look to the statement of accounts, it is obvious that between the year 2001 to 2003, the wife spent Rs.5,25,303/- to sustain the household, pay the school fee and electricity and water bills. During this period, she purchased a car and a sophisticated hearing aid + a computer for the daughter for which 3 items she spent Rs.6,12,000/-. Thereafter, from March 2003 to March 2007 i.e. in 4 years she withdrew Rs.4,80,000/- presumably spent towards household expenses for said period.

23. It is evident that the wife was able to sustain herself and the daughters in sum of Rs.20,000/- per month as household expenses + other miscellaneous expenses excluding capital expenses incurred for purchase of a car, hearing aid and a computer.

24. The learned Judge ought to have called upon the wife to disclose on oath as to where has she spent or invested approximately Rs.34 lacs. The learned Judge ought to have called upon the wife to explain as to why she withdrew Rs.41,78,000/-between 24.3.2003 and 28.1.2004. What was the need to withdraw such an heavy amount?

25. Further investigation was required to be made as to in what manner interest accruing on the 2 fixed deposits totalling Rs.14 lacs was being spent by the wife.

26. It could well be argued that the wife has invested huge sums in undisclosed places wherefrom she is getting considerable income by way of interest or dividends.

27. I need not analyze the evidence on record any further inasmuch as I am relegating the parties before the learned Matrimonial Judge and therefore I do not want either party to be prejudiced at the inquiry, lest any observation made by me, inadvertently concludes the issue one way or the other.

28. The petition accordingly stands disposed of quashing the impugned order dated 13.2.2007.

29. The matter is remanded for fresh adjudication before the learned Matrimonial Judge. I direct that at the remanded proceedings, learned Matrimonial Judge would call upon the wife to file a detailed affidavit disclosing investments made by her as also render a true account of all withdrawals effected by the wife from the year 2001 till date. Further, the wife would be called upon to explain details of the monthly household expenditure as also expenses incurred on the education and medical treatment of the 2 daughters. Further, the wife would be called upon to explain withdrawals made in sum of Rs.41,78,000/- from 24.3.2003 to 28.1.2004. Further, in respect of withdrawals made prior and subsequent thereto, the wife would be called upon to explain that if she could maintain herself and the 2 daughters in approximately Rs.20,000/- per month preceding and succeeding the period 24.3.2003 to 28.1.2004, where has she spent the money withdrawn between 24.3.2003 to 28.1.2004.

30. An analysis of withdrawals made from the 2 accounts from time to time shall be done by the learned Matrimonial Judge and thereafter the application under Section 24 of the Hindu Marriage Act filed by the wife would be re-decided. Needless to state, principles culled out by me in para 10 above would be kept in view by the learned Matrimonial Judge while re-deciding the application.

31. No costs.

Sd/-

(PRADEEP NANDRAJOG) JUDGE



http://delhicourts.nic.in/Apr07/Alok%20Kumar%20Jain%20Vs.%20Purnima%20Jain.pdf

Men and their families regularly get arrested on complaints by living wife

Hi Gope

Many men are arrested on complaints by their LIVING wife. I've posted dozens of such cases here and on my blogs. 498a does NOT , repeat does NOT distinguish between a dead woman and a living woman

In my case, my wife is very much alive and is traveling around the globe and my wife filed a complaint and the police tried to arrest my mum etc...

Here are the MANY REPORTED instances that I have posted showing men (and their families) being arrested when the wife is alive. Some of these blogs have multiple news articles on them

Are all these wives dead ?? Cognizance of offenses - 498a filed by the wife when she is alive
http://batteredmale.blogspot.com/2007/10/are-all-these-wives-dead-cognizance-of.html
alternate URL http://tinyurl.com/2ck3sg


NRI (and his elderly parents) arrested for (allegedly ??) demanding dowry - WIFE IS ALIVE !! and free
http://batteredmale.blogspot.com/2007/11/nri-and-his-elderly-parents-arrested.html
alternate URL http://tinyurl.com/38n55p


Police Inspector arrested on complaint by LIVE DAUGHTER IN LAW !!
http://batteredmale.blogspot.com/2007/11/police-inspector-arrested-on-complaint.html
alternate URL http://tinyurl.com/2lcyv2


Feminism international - "Aussie woman alleges dowry abuse" - Husband arrested, wife is alive !!
http://batteredmale.blogspot.com/2007/11/feminism-international-aussie-woman.html
alternate URL http://tinyurl.com/36g6w6


Husband arrested AND DIES IN lock up on a Dowry complaint by a living wife !!
http://batteredmale.blogspot.com/2007/11/husband-arrested-and-dies-in-lock-up-on.html
alternate URL http://tinyurl.com/3cmf4d


Man booked on wife's complaint
http://batteredmale.blogspot.com/2007/11/man-booked-on-wifes-complaint.html
alternate URL http://tinyurl.com/2mmr8k


Bridegroom and family arrested barely hours after wedding on LIVING wife's complaint
http://batteredmale.blogspot.com/2007/11/bridegroom-and-family-arrested-barely.html
alternate URL http://tinyurl.com/2wl2ln


Red-corner notice against Patiala resident [Red corner notice against NRI ?? ]
http://batteredmale.blogspot.com/2007/11/red-corner-notice-against-patiala.html
alternate URL http://tinyurl.com/335q5r


Engineer held in dowry case
http://batteredmale.blogspot.com/2007/11/engineer-held-in-dowry-case.html
alternate URL http://tinyurl.com/3ctos5


NRI groom, parents arrested for demanding dowry
http://batteredmale.blogspot.com/2007/11/nri-groom-parents-arrested-for.html
alternate URL http://tinyurl.com/2twzxk




regards
Vinayak



>
>
>Re: SIFF MOVEMENT CATCHING MEDIA ATTENTION
>Sun Nov 25, 2007 10:08 am (PST)
>
>RANJANA KUMARI MINISTER IN CENTRAL GOVERNMENT
>OF INDIA SAYS THAT 498A IPC COMES IN EFFECT
>WHEN THE WOMAN IS DEAD.
>

God knows what she meant !!

>SUSHILKUMAR SHARMA ALSO SAYS THAT LIVING WOMAN
>CANNOT USE 498A IPC.
>

Is this LEGALLY ATTESTED ??

>THE GOVERNER OF DELHI HAS INSTRUCTED TO THE
>COMMISSIONER OF POLICE ADVISING NOT TO REGISTER
>FIR UNDER 498A IPC FROM LIVING WOMAN.


Please note that the governor has NOT said anything like this.


Saturday, November 24, 2007

NRI (and his elderly parents) arrested for


NRI (and his elderly parents) arrested for (allegedly ??) demanding dowry

WIFE IS ALIVE !! and free


27 Oct 2007, 0053 hrs IST ,Gur Kirpal Singh Ashk, TNN

PATIALA:

Taking a bold step, a doctor girl here on Friday refused to marry an NRI who was demanding dowry. Not only this, her family members and relatives taught them a lesson by handing them over to the police.

The whole episode took place at Chahal Palace here, venue of the marriage, where Amitoz was to marry Gurpreet Singh, a doctor from Pennsylvania, USA. The marriage party consisting of around 40 persons reached the venue and raised a demand of Rs 50 lakh. When the girl's family expressed their inability in paying the amount, they threatened to call off the marriage. Meanwhile, Amitoz came to know about the demand and flatly refused to marry him.

Girl's family also reported the matter to police. In presence of the police both parties scuffled and later groom, his father and mother were arrested. Gurbachan Singh (father of the bride) told TOI that last night they went to village Kaddon (groom's village), Doraha, with the request that they can't fulfil their demand overnight, but they refused to talk. "Later, we received a message saying that the marriage is still on. We were under an impression that they had given up the demand," he said.

SP (city) Mandeep Singh Sidhu said a case has been registered against Gurpreet Singh, his father Bhajan Singh and mother Harjit Kaur under Dowry Act.

http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/Chandigarh/NRI_parents_arrested_for_demanding_dowry/articleshow/2493749.cms

NRI held in Haryana for bigamy


http://www.earthtimes.org/articles/show/141698.html

NRI held in Haryana for bigamy

Posted : Wed, 14 Nov 2007 08:29:05 GMT

Author : IANS

Hissar (Haryana), Nov 14 - A US based non-resident Indian (NRI) has been arrested here by the police for bigamy.

Nitin Kumar was arrested from a hotel Tuesday along with his new wife, Daljit Kaur of Sangrur town in Punjab.

Kumar's other family members -- mother Tarawanti, sister Sonia and brother Ravi -- were also arrested.

The arrests followed a complaint by Kumar's first wife Divya, who came to know about the second marriage.

Divya told the police that Kumar, whom she had married two years ago, had refused to arrange a US visa for her as she and her family had failed to meet his dowry demand of Rs.2.5 million.

He was demanding the money to purchase a house in California where he was living. She said that her family had earlier given him Rs.125,000 but he demanded more.

Kumar then reportedly went in for a second marriage without legally ending the first one.

His second wife Daljit Kaur told the police that she and her family did not know that Kumar was already married. The police handed her over to her family members.

Divya said she would not go to the US with Kumar after this episode, as she was afraid he would harass her.

Police Inspector arrested on complaint by LIVE DAUGHTER IN LAW !!


Police Inspector arrested on complaint by LIVE DAUGHTER IN LAW !!


Cop held for harassing 'dark' bahu

Naziya Alvi
New Delhi, November 20, 2007

A Delhi Police sub-inspector who allegedly harassed his daughter-in-law for dowry as payback for her dark complexion was arrested on Monday.

The woman, Sushma, has been living in the home of her father, a retired sub-inspector, since her husband, Gulshan Yaday, disowned her two months ago.

Yaday has also filed for divorce. Sushma was married in 2001 and has two children. "My father-in-law Prem Sukh Yaday and my in-laws said no amount of dowry could compensate for my complexion," she said.

The Yadays allegedly threw her out after their latest demand - a car and Rs 80,000 - was not met. Sushma's lawyer L.K. Verma said the Yadays also beat his client frequently. According to him, Sushma's father, Kundan Lal, spent Rs 151akh on the wedding, and was then forced to gift his son-in-law a flat. The Yadays' lawyer, Kusum Lata Sharma, denied all allegations.

"How can someone whose own daughter is dark, harass someone else's daughter?" she asked.


http://httabloid.com/news/7242_2067000,00180008.htm

Smalin in Tiruchy hospital


http://www.newindpress.com/NewsItems.asp?ID=IET20071124213336&Page=T&Headline=Smalin+in+Tiruchy+hospital&Title=Southern+News+-+Tamil+Nadu&Topic=0

alternate URL http://tinyurl.com/3cfgqt

Newindpress on Sunday
       
SOUTHERN NEWS - TAMIL NADU    

Nov 25, 2007

Smalin in Tiruchy hospital

Sunday November 25 2007 07:55 IST

EXPRESS NEWS SERVICE

TRICHY: Smalin Jenita, allegedly harassed by her in-laws and husband in North Carolina, the United States of America, for dowry, was admitted to a private hospital here on Friday after undergoing treatment in Chennai for the past few days.

Smalin from Duraisamypuram, married to Christy Danius of Kattur here, hit the headlines after reports of her US-employed husband's harassment and the subsequent accident in which she was admitted to a hospital in the United States.

Her father Sebastian brought and admitted her to a Chennai hospital. She was brought in an ambulance and admitted to the hospital here.

Talking to reporters, her aunt Sylvia said that they were prepared to lodge complaints with the US police too if justice was not rendered here.

She said that there was no improvement in the health of Jenita, though mentally she was in a better state.



Feminism international - "Aussie woman alleges dowry abuse"


Comments : Who said ONLY Indian women file dowry cases ?? !! Sadly the result is the same, the hubby is behind bars :-(


Aussie woman alleges dowry abuse
25 Nov 2007, 0137 hrs IST, TNN

HYDERABAD: An Australian woman, who married a person from the city a few years ago, lodged a complaint with the police on Saturday against her husband and mother-in-law alleging dowry harassment.

The family, however, refuted the charges and claimed they had returned most of the money taken from the Australian woman.

Vanasthalipuram police said Mario Franklin Campbell, 32, went to Australia to pursue his education in 2002. During his stay in Sydney, he fell in love with an Australian woman Samantha Jani Sevel, 30, and they got married.

Campbell, however, returned to the city alone a few years ago. Samantha, who arrived in the city 10 days back, lodged a police complaint on Saturday alleging that her husband and mother-in-law Shaila Desai were harassing her physically and mentally. She had given them 50,000 Australian dollars, she claimed.

Samantha also alleged that her husband was trying to get married again. Police reportedly took Campbell into custody and are investigating.

Campbell's mother, Desai, is a retired gazetted officer. Police registered a case under Sec 498 (A) dowry harassment and are investigating.

http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/Hyderabad/Aussie_woman_alleges_dowry_abuse/articleshow/2568412.cms

SIFF Bangalore Meeting at 11am, Sat, Call or SMS 98451 43724

SIFF Bangalore Meeting :

Location: In Cubbon Park in front of Press Club, Bangalore.
(Behind High Court and also behind BSNL).

Time: 11 am to 1:00pm

Contacts: 98451 43724 and 98869 34853
(call or SMS if you are coming for first time)

Best Regards
Gorky
Bangalore

Sixty Fifth meeting of SIF Kolkata on Saturday, 24th November 2007 at 3:30 PM :

Friends

Sixty Fifth meeting of the members of SIF and victims of Kolkata will be held on Saturday, 24th November 2007 at 3:30 PM at:

Sangeet Jyotsna
C/o Tantia High School
2, Syed Salley Street
Kolkata - 700 073
(Opposite : Md. Ali Park, CR Avenue, Near : Moonlight Cinema)

All people who wish to attend are invited. If the victims cannot attend in person, they can send their family member or friend to attend.


Kind Regards
Vineet Ruia - 25217318/25347398 (8:30 to 10 pm only)
Kamlesh K Dwivedi - 9231835462
D.S.Rao - 9830151555
Suman Chatterjee - 9830927619
T.K.Goswami - 94320 91260

Thursday, November 22, 2007

More about the Chennai NRI being accused of Dowry Harassment


More about the Chennai NRI being accused of Dowry Harassment



Google group set up by the hubby's friends soon after the accident, with chennai based names and addresses. Shows clearly that this NRI hubby suffered monetary loss and his mum and sister were NOT even covered by insurance when this accident happened.

http://groups.google.com/group/isha-it/browse_thread/thread/82b79b48c68c68dd
or alternate URL
http://tinyurl.com/yw7dgx


News article at the time of the accident. No mention of fight or pushing out of the car

http://www.journalnow.com/servlet/Satellite?pagename=WSJ/MGArticle/WSJ_BasicArticle&c=MGArticle&cid=1173352213673
or alterenate URL
http://tinyurl.com/yojolc




Did marriage proposal upset Chitra?


The Hindu Online
Thursday, Nov 22, 2007

Did marriage proposal upset Chitra?
Special Correspondent

BANGALORE: R. Chitra, the Ph.D. scholar at Indian Institute of Science (IISc.) who committed suicide on Monday night, had taken the extreme step as she was reportedly unhappy over her proposed marriage.

Enquiries with Chitra's family members showed that the 32-year-old was not happy about an alliance finalised by her parents, Deputy Commissioner of Police (West) K.V. Sharathchandra told The Hindu on Wednesday.

"This may be the reason for the suicide. As the family is in a state of shock, we have not been able to question them in detail," he said.

The police on Tuesday searched Chitra's hostel room on the IISc. campus and she had not left any suicide note. The autopsy had revealed that she had consumed poison, suspected to be a plant derivative. The viscera have been sent for chemical analysis to the State Forensic Science Laboratory. The chemical analysis report would confirm the nature of substance she had consumed, Mr. Sharathchandra said.

On Monday night, Chitra boarded a KSRTC bus at Kempegowda bus station to reach her hometown Cuddalore in Tamil Nadu. When the bus reached Hosur Road, the conductor noticed Chitra convulsed with vomiting.


http://www.hindu.com/2007/11/22/stories/2007112260860300.htm

Further proof that Girls look at marriage as booty !!

Good job means good marriage market !!


Ends justify the means

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This one is interesting. Dormouse has a friend. The friend recently got selected in the prestigious Kashmir Administrative Service. But they are still waiting for the posting as their case is pending in Supreme Court of India...Reason—someone has brought stay on the list of KAS. But that is not what compelled Dormouse to write. As Dormouse's friend got selected in KAS prelim exam, a middleman thought he was the prospective groom so out he came to his house with many matrimonial. But Dormouse's friend said he is young at this stage to marry. The middleman was not to be deterred. And when the KAS aspirant qualified for mains and got selected for viva also, middleman's rounds became more frequent. He was determined to get him married. And, then finally when his name figured in the last list, the middlemen became more determined, more rigid and came up with more photos of brides. But every time he was rebuked by the KAS friend of Dormouse. So good.

But now comes the anti-climax. Now, the family of the KAS 'unofficial officer' was also giving serious thought of marrying him. But the middleman's rounds became sparing. Why? Because the list was first stayed and then it got prolonged and the middleman's round too became mean. With the case of KAS hanging in SC, the middleman is also hanging somewhere, waiting what happens to them, and then only he will come.

After all ends justify the means! Don't they?  

http://etalaat.net/english/index.php?option=com_content&task=view&id=3635&Itemid=51

Dowry dispute is a knotty case - US Baased NRI accused of Dowry Harassment


Thursday, November 22, 2007
Dowry dispute is a knotty case

Father of woman from India hurt in wreck says son-in-law abused her

By Michael Hewlett
JOURNAL REPORTER

A woman from India who was seriously injured in a car wreck this past summer is now at the center of an international scandal over dowries and allegations of physical abuse.

The woman's father recently filed a criminal complaint in India against his son-in-law. The complaint alleges that the son-in-law had abused the woman in the United States over a dowry, according to The Times of India.

Smalin Jenita was 23 and about three months pregnant when she and her husband, Christy Xavier Danius, were involved in a car accident in Yadkin County on July 31, according to the N.C. Highway Patrol.

Danius was on his way from the couple's home in Broadview Heights, Ohio, to a new job in Greenville, S.C., and was traveling south on Interstate 77 near U.S. 421 when he swerved to avoid a car that had merged in front of him, according to the patrol. His car crossed the centerline, overturned and rolled several times. The car went over a median and landed in the northbound lanes, the patrol said.

Danius' sister, Leema Pillai, and Jenita were flown to Wake Forest University Baptist Medical Center in Winston-Salem with critical injuries. Jenita had a serious brain injury and was admitted to the hospital's trauma unit. She stayed for three months.

In September, Danius returned to India, and hospital officials filed a petition with Forsyth Superior Court to get Jenita declared incompetent so she could be appointed a guardian, according to court records.

On Oct. 4, the court awarded custody of Jenita to her father, Sebastian Antony Samy. About a week ago, Samy and Jenita flew to India, where she is recovering at a hospital. Her baby is fine, said Sardar Inam, a medical technician at Baptist who is from Pakistan and who became friends with Jenita's family.

Inam said that Jenita's family has accused Danius and his family of beating Jenita in the months before the accident. Inam said that Jenita's family believe that the July 31 accident was caused because some of Danius' family members were trying to push Jenita out of the car.

The highway patrol does not make any mention of Jenita being pushed out of the car in its accident report, and Inam said that the family hasn't sought criminal charges in North Carolina related to the accident.

Joti Sekhon, a professor of sociology at Greensboro College, said that it is hard to say how common disputes over dowries are. There are no firm statistics, and such disputes sometimes go unreported.

"My sense is if the marriage is working, they try to work it out," Sekhon said. "But if they don't get along, the dowry becomes one of the issues that come up."

Jenita's story has been heavily covered by the media in India. The issue of dowries is a hot topic in India, Sekhon said.

A dowry is a payment, either in cash or some kind of gift, from a bride's family to a groom's family. Dowries were historically more common among upper-class families, Sekhon said, but in recent years, dowries have spread to middle-class and working-class families.

Dowries have been illegal in India since 1961 but continue to be widespread and have become more of a status symbol for some families.

According to the Los Angeles Times, dowries have resulted in the deaths of thousands of women. A woman was killed over dowries every 77 minutes in India, or more than 6,700 deaths, the Times reported.

Since dowries are illegal, families rarely have contracts on the amount of dowry to be paid, Sekhon said. Sometimes, the groom's family members might become dissatisfied with the amount of dowry they receive, she said.

According to the Times, women have been burned alive, electrocuted, poisoned, pushed out of windows and killed in other ways over dowries.

■ Michael Hewlett can be reached at 727-7326 or at mhewlett@wsjournal.com.


http://www.journalnow.com/servlet/Satellite?pagename=WSJ/MGArticle/WSJ_BasicArticle&c=MGArticle&cid=1173353588656

Re: NRI dowry case: Complaint filed against husband



This incident allegedly happened at US of A

God knows as to the truth behind this ... was this an accident ? ... was this intentional ? etc etc

Now there is a DGP asking the girls family to file a complaint from Trichy !! - Tamil Nadu, India

Where is the jurisdiction ????

Do any of us know this unfortunate Hubby ?

Is he alert to this legal issue(s) ?


regards
Vinayak



>
>
>Re: NRI dowry case: Complaint filed against husband
>Thu Nov 22, 2007 1:57 am (PST)
>
>Leave all these issues aside. First off
>this guy is saying he never received a
>single penny and is willing to make all of
>his accounts public to prove it.
>
>Is this FIL bastar* ready to do the same
>thing to prove he has given even a single
>penny? NO.
>
>Why will he almost get his sister killed
>for 80,000/-. If there is any truth why did
>they not file the case in USA where the
>punishment is a lot severe in india (But if
>the case is found false, the accuser will be
>punished and this is why they did not do it
>in US).
>
>Can Jay/Uma who are in touch with Christy
>get him to talk more? I e-mailed him but no
>response.
>
>Will he want to come and fight if he is
>promised by GOVT that the case will be
>finished in 6 months and if he is proven
>innocent the girls family will pay his
>flight charges and 6 months of his regular
>pay. if he says yes, then we can have the
>same published in papers and its up to the
>government if they are willing to take this
>agreement as it is very fair.
>
>Thanks,
>
>R
>
>>
>>,........... wrote:
>>
>>
>>These incidents are happening because,
>>during the marriage time girl father is
>>promising so many things which he can't
>>do.Finally they are miserably failing to
>>give all the promises what he has done
>>during the marriage.This is causing so many
>>issues.
>>
>>1.Why girl father should promise for giving
>>x lakhs of many.
>>
>>2.If he would have promised, then he would
>>have given during the marriage with out
>>having any issues.
>>
>>3.He told lie to get the good match to his
>>daughter.
>>
>>4.If the match is beyond the capacity, he
>>would have gone for the suitable one instaed
>>of going beyond the capacity.
>>
>>Thanks
>>
>>S
>>
>>>
>>>
>>>--- Vinayak.20.victim123@... wrote:
>>>
>>> http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/Dowry_case_Complaint_filed_against_NRI/articleshow/2560054.cms
>>>
>>>NRI dowry case: Complaint filed against husband
>>>
>>>21 Nov 2007, 2045 hrs IST,PTI
>>>
>>>CHENNAI: Father of Smalin Jenita, the
>>>pregnant wife of a US-based NRI, on
>>>Wednesday filed a complaint with Tamil Nadu
>>>DGP P Rajendiran, alleging that his son-in-
>>>law had subjected her to torture for dowry.
>>>
>>>In his complaint, A Sebastian charged that
>>>his son-in-law, O Christy Danies, an
>>>employee of Infosys, and his parents had
>>>beaten her up, pushed out of a speeding car
>>>and later abandoned her at a North Carolina
>>>hospital with serious injuries.
>>>
>>>The 23-year-old woman was later rescued by
>>>a Pakistani employee of the hospital, who
>>>also informed Sebastian about her plight.
>>>
>>>Sebastian immediately rushed to the US and
>>>brought Jenita to Chennai and got her
>>>admitted to a private hospital.
>>>
>>>Jenita, who got married to Danies in June,
>>>2006, had left for the US this April to join
>>>her husband.
>>>
>>>The DGP directed them to file a complaint
>>>with the police in Tiruchirapalli, Jenita's
>>>native place.


NCW suggests alimony for live-in partners


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Thursday, November 22, 2007

NCW suggests alimony for live-in partners

By Sunaina Anand in New Delhi

The National Commission for women on Wednesday sent its recommendations to the ministry of women and children on the amendments to Section 125(3) of Criminal procedure code (CrPC).
Section 125 entails that a husband provides maintenance to his wife and children in case of a divorce.

But according to the womens panel, in most cases women do not get the interim relief awarded by the Court. "Thirty per cent of the women awarded relief, do not receive the compensation. We conducted a study in one village where over 70 per cent of the victims had not got the relief. Hence, these recommendations to ensure that the victims are compensated," said NCW chairperson Girija Vyas.

The panel has proposed that if a person fails to comply with the order the magistrate should issue a warrant against the defaulter who may be imprisoned for a month, this sentence could be enhanced up to six months. Along with this the court should award the victim the whole or part of the defaulters salary. In case he is unable to pay, an order for the sale of his property could also be issued.

Vyas suggested that the interpretation of the word wife be changed. "Relief must also be provided in case of a live-in relationship," she said. She elaborated that a woman trapped into marriage by a man who already has a living spouse should also be awarded compensation.

"Non performance of certain ceremonies can render a marriage null and void. In our country several people conduct marriages by mere exchange of garlands and these people are recognised in their community as man and wife. In such a case the marriage should be considered legal and the woman should be awarded compensation," she added.

According to the commission, the words "living-in adultery should be omitted from the Section as this is often used as a pretext to deprive the wife from claiming maintenance and to embarrass and humiliate the woman.

It was also proposed to use the provisions of the Army Act, which ensures that deductions are made from the pay of an officer of any sum required by order of the central government for maintenance of his wife or child.

To make certain that the officer is not put to undue financial hardships the Act provides a ceiling regarding the deductions, which entails that the relief awarded does not exceed 33 per cent of his salary. "I feel that these provisions should be incorporated in all conduct rules of government servants, public servants and also in respect to establishments in the private sector," said Vyas.

sunaina.anand@mailtoday.in


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NRI dowry case: Complaint filed against husband

http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/Dowry_case_Complaint_filed_against_NRI/articleshow/2560054.cms

NRI dowry case: Complaint filed against husband


21 Nov 2007, 2045 hrs IST ,PTI

CHENNAI: Father of Smalin Jenita, the pregnant wife of a US-based NRI, on Wednesday filed a complaint with Tamil Nadu DGP P Rajendiran, alleging that his son-in-law had subjected her to torture for dowry.

In his complaint, A Sebastian charged that his son-in-law, O Christy Danies, an employee of Infosys, and his parents had beaten her up, pushed out of a speeding car and later abandoned her at a North Carolina hospital with serious injuries.

The 23-year-old woman was later rescued by a Pakistani employee of the hospital, who also informed Sebastian about her plight.

Sebastian immediately rushed to the US and brought Jenita to Chennai and got her admitted to a private hospital.

Jenita, who got married to Danies in June, 2006, had left for the US this April to join her husband.

The DGP directed them to file a complaint with the police in Tiruchirapalli, Jenita's native place.

Drama at actor’s house as a woman claiming to be ‘first wife’ seeks alimony


Drama at actor's house as a woman claiming to be 'first wife' seeks alimony


Posted online: Wednesday, November 07, 2007 at 12:00:00
Updated: Wednesday, November 07, 2007 at 12:28:46


Mumbai, November 6 "SHE thought she could make an Udit Narayan like headline, I just gave her a non-cognisable police complaint," is what Roshni Achreja, the live-in partner of actor Raghubir Yadav, had to say over the three-hour drama at her Goregaon flat over a settlement for Yadav's "first marriage".

At noon, residents of the 20-storey building at Goregaon where Raghubir Yadav of the Mungerilal Ke Haseen Sapne fame lives, heard and saw a woman claiming to be his former wife, and the media and the Mumbai police waiting for Yadav to make an appearance. He was away shooting for a film.

Poornima Kharga, who works as a teacher at a play school in New Delhi and is also a part-time theatre artiste, had come armed with a 10-year-old photo album of her marriage with Yadav and copies of court papers.

Speaking to the media, she said: "There is a Delhi High Court order stating Yadav has to pay me Rs 10,000 every month as alimony. He has not paid a penny till date. Based on my compliant, there are summons calling him to attend court, something he has never done." She said the police have made several trips to Yadav's home, but were always sent away saying he was away on tour. "I finally took the summons myself as I was not getting any money and I was unable to sustain myself. I am here to ask him how he can continue another life when I have not been given my settlement," Kharga said.

Achreja said Kharga abused her and didn't leave the flat until 3 pm, when the police arrived. "I called the police after which a lady constable was sent here. A non-cognisable (NC) complaint was registered against her at the Goregaon police station," Achreja said. "I have never believed in the institution of marriage. I stay with Yadav and am involved in his work. I am happy the way I am leading my life. I am like a mother to her (Kharga's) child. He comes over and we lead a happy life. I do not understand why she should resort to complaints. Yadav has been undertaking the entire monetary expense of their child, which she cannot refute."

Kharga and Yadav's son was also in the flat when the drama unfolded.

The Goregaon police station confirmed that an NC was registered against Kharga.


http://www.expressindia.com/latest-news/Drama-at-actors-house-as-first-wife-seeks-alimony/236861/

Many more men commit suicides than women !! Many suicides due to FAMILY PROBLEMS ....


Many more men commit suicides than women !! Many suicides due to FAMILY PROBLEMS ....


http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/Every_day_300_Indians_kill_themselves/articleshow/2560370.cms

Every day, over 300 Indians kill themselves

22 Nov 2007, 0112 hrs IST,Vishwa Mohan & Nitin Sethi,TNN

NEW DELHI: Stories about "Incredible India" might be the flavour of the day, but there is a grimmer and less flattering picture of a distressed India: On average, a farmer commits suicide every half hour. And it is the farmer in economically more developed states, not traditional BIMARU ones, who is the most vulnerable.

The overall figures are no less depressing. In 2005, the last year for which complete figures are available, there were as many as 312 suicides a day, almost a third of them by women. One-third of those who commit suicide are young people, less than 29 years old. An average of 90 of those take their lives every day are above 45 years.

Suicides in the country have steadily risen because of various factors, the important ones being "family problem" and "illness" — the two made up about 44% of suicides. Other factors mentioned in the records include "love affairs".

Poverty does not come across as an important factor driving people over the edge: it accounts for merely 2.2% of the suicides reported. Significantly, while suicides by indebted farmers are supposed to have been largely responsible for driving suicide figures up, "bankruptcy" has been mentioned in a meagre 2.7% of the cases.

More men commit suicides than women. And while loneliness and pangs of separation have long been held to leading people to take the extreme step, more than two-thirds of those who committed suicides in 2005 were married.

But while statistics tell a sad tale, they don't tell the entire story. They are derived from first information reports (FIRs) filed all over the country and compiled by the National Crime Records Bureau. And while pointing to the magnitude of the problem, the full picture might be worse, considering many suicides are not reported.

Tuesday, November 20, 2007

A Selfish and in-Human Women exposed in Court.

A Selfish and in-Human Women exposed in Court.


  Hyderabad, Nov 3: Can a woman prevent her husband from making a sacrifice out of affection for his parents because this would in turn affect her life? Faced with the ethical question, the Andhra Pradesh High Court said no and dismissed a woman's petition seeking to stop her husband from donating his liver to his father.

In a significant judgement, the high court Thursday rejected software professional Sumakiran Mallena's plea. Mallena, who works for a city firm, approached the court on the ground that the act by her 29-year-old husband Nagasayana Baki would affect his health and in turn affect her life.

Nagasayana, a telecom engineer in Minneapolis, US, wants to donate a portion of his liver to his father B.G.K. Prasad, who is suffering from liver cirrhosis and is currently under treatment at Delhi's Apollo Indraprastha Hospital. He flew in from the US on Oct 20 and is presently in Delhi.

"My life will be doomed... in the land of disease and misery and my husband's action will offend my right to life and liberty," Sumakiran had said in her petition while contending that parental affection should be kept under check after a person gets married.

The court not only dismissed her petition but also said that she ignored the fundamental reality that her husband owed his existence on this earth to his parents. It said nobody could limit or control the mutual affection between parents and children.

"It is the selfless sacrifices of the parents that make a child grow and prosper in every respect," said Justice C.V. Nagarjuna Reddy in his judgement.

The judge said the petitioner did not seem to be conscious of the fact that she herself was a prospective parent and might be in the same position.

IANS


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Monday, November 19, 2007

Marriage market’s most unwanted: NRI grooms

http://www.dnaindia.com/report.asp?newsid=1134011

Marriage market's most unwanted: NRI grooms

Team DNA /Agencies

Monday, November 19, 2007  03:01 IST

Non-resident Indians (NRIs) have their work cut out if they are hoping to snare Indian brides. Thanks to booming salaries in India and the not-so-infrequent tales of nasty surprises after marriage, Indian brides are now more likely to look for desi grooms.

"Foreign-employed grooms are no longer in demand because Indian boys are getting decent salaries," agrees Sejal Chacha of Asheervaad Marriage Bureau in Bandra.

"We will consider a boy working abroad only as a last resort," says Asha Jose, a housewife in Thiruvananthapuram,  looking for a groom for her daughter. "When people can be sure of financial security right here, why toil in a foreign land ?" she asks.

Among the other major trends noticed in a multi-city DNA survey are a strong preference for CAs and tech professionals working in India, growing incidence of inter-caste and inter-community marriages, and a fall in dowry demands among some communities.

Another clear trend: no one wants doctors as grooms. As for BPO workers, they are not first preference, but then they tend to pair up at the workplace itself.

But the dominant theme that emerged very strongly across centres was the bear market for NRI grooms.

"Only 2% of parents in Kolkata seem to prefer an overseas son-in-law," says a marriage registrar.

"Good job opportunities and growing salaries are bringing back the best of professionals to India. So the preference for a foreign bride is coming down," adds Bharat Matrimony CEO Murugavel Janakiraman from Chennai.

With the growth of nuclear families, girls prefer to live closer to their parents and in-laws.

 "Girls prefer to settle down in hometowns where they can take care of their families along with their in-laws, " says Smita Sheth, who runs Manpasand marriage bureau in Ahmedabad. "The craze for grooms from abroad is now restricted only to a few families."

Many girls as well as their parents are also put off by reports of NRI grooms ditching marriages at whim.

"They are scared because in some cases the boys already have girlfriends or even wives abroad," says Jyotika Shah, who runs a marriage bureau in Kandivli.

A Lucknow marriage broker recounts an example to make the same point. She had arranged the alliance of Neetu with Rajneesh and even organised the marriage party from the bride's side.

Rajneesh, a software engineer settled in Canada, hasn't surfaced for six months after he left town last July.

"He is not answering phone calls or emails. I have sworn not to arrange any more marriages with boys settled abroad," says the broker.

"Most marriage bureaus now seem to be avoiding alliances with overseas grooms," says Pramod Kumar Agarwal, another marriage broker in Lucknow. The few who go in for foreign grooms pick them from known families or after getting references, says H Raj who runs Face-to Face, a marriage bureau in Ahmedabad.

For those who still want a groom working abroad, the US is not the hottest destination. Australia tops the list for some, while the US comes second. Quite clearly, the lure of greenback incomes is fading.

(Reported by Preety Acharya in Mumbai, Forum Chhaya in Ahmedabad, Deepak Gidwani in Lucknow, Madhumita Mookerji in Kolkata, Don Sebastian in Thiruvanthapuram, Arun Ram in Chennai and Bhargavi Kerur in Bangalore)


‘Demand for dowry is less and less in big metros’

http://www.dnaindia.com/report.asp?newsid=1133991

DNA NOW   

'Demand for dowry is less and less in big metros'
Preety Acharya
Monday, November 19, 2007  03:05 IST


Vibhas Mehta, Business Head of Shaadi.Com, in conversation with Preety Acharya

Q : Who are the most favoured grooms in India these days?

A : It's all about compatibility. According to the profession, people choose their husbands.

Q : Whom do the grooms want?

A : These days most men prefer working women because they can contribute to the family's earnings

Q : Has India's booming economy reduced the craze for NRI grooms?

A : Yes it has. Now everything is available in India. People are getting good pay packets in
India.

Q : What about dowry demands? Are they coming down?

A : In metros and small cities it's almost negligible. But again it's an individual choice which is not in our control.

Q : What about inter-caste marriages?

A : As I said, it's all about compatibility. But yes when parents are involved they do consider the caste factor. But times are changing.

Q : What kind of changes have you made in your partner selection process?

A : We have different categories for different professions. People from a particular profession sometimes prefer partners in similar jobs.

Q : Over the years, what changes have you noticed in this business?

A : Previously NRIs were using this medium for marriages but now the majority of our customers are Indians. So basically they are becoming broad minded.

Q : What difference do you find in the marriage market in foreign countries and abroad?

A : Abroad, they are more interested in dating that's why they have specific sites for that. But in India, marriage is still an important institution. That's why our sites are for marriage purposes.

Q : What kind of changes do you find in the people profile?

A : Earlier, people were not so open about themselves. Hence, the focus was on their families and less about their personal lives. But now they are more open and they mention their preferences clearly.

Q : What about fake profiles?

A : We take precautions to avoid fake profiles by tracking the time which they take to fill in their details. But then it is an open site. So, anybody can enroll. But when you meet the person you can judge the reality.


Now, Indian men seek justice!

http://www.earthtimes.org/articles/show/144635.html

Now, Indian men seek justice!



New Delhi, Nov 19 -

Claiming men are subjected to severe discrimination under law and their basic rights are violated every day, a group of men activists on International Men's Day Monday demanded a separate department be set up to deal with 'crimes against men'.


The activists observed International Men's Day for the first time in the country and submitted a memorandum to the offices of the prime minister and the home minister, urging for the setting up of a 'Ministry for Men's Welfare'.


'Men perform some of the most risky and challenging jobs in society and while the government of India collects 82 percent of its tax revenues from men, not a single rupee has been allocated in the name of men's welfare in the budget in the last 60 years,' said Swarup Sarkar, an activist with Save India Family Foundation, an NGO.


'An increasing number of men are losing employment, more women are entering the job market and defying their traditional roles within the family and the society. Nevertheless, the society is refusing to free men of their traditional duties of protecting and providing for women, children and the aged.


'In addition, men are being subjected to severe discrimination under law and their basic human rights are being violated every day in the name of more and more legal provisions that claim to empower and protect women,' Sarkar added.

International chapters of Save Family Foundation will make a similar request at the Indian embassies in Britain, the US, Australia and the Mid-East.

Neeraj Aggarwal, another activist, said thousands of men are becoming victims of 'legal terrorism' unleashed through the misuse of the Indian Penal Code section 498 A, the Protection of Women from Domestic Violence Act, adultery laws, laws against rape and sexual harassment, and even laws pertaining to divorce, maintenance and child custody.

According to the National Crime Record Bureau (NCRB), the number of suicides by males in every age group studied outweighs the number of suicides by females, in the recent years.'In the year 2005 alone, nearly twice as many married men - 52,483 - compared to married women - 28,186 - committed suicide unable to withstand verbal, emotional, economic and physical abuse and legal harassment,' Aggarwal said.

Sarkar added: 'The NCRB figures suggest that only two percent of 120,000 men arrested in the country under dowry charges are being convicted, which suggests that a large number of men are implicated in false cases.

'
A well-known woman activist, dismayed at the men activists' demands, remarked: 'Though anti-dowry laws and domestic violence acts are tough, and sometimes men become victims of them, but it largely helps women get justice in a male-dominated society.'


Sunday, November 18, 2007

Husband arrested AND DIES IN lock up on a Dowry complaint by a living wife !!


Husband arrested AND DIES IN lock up on a Dowry complaint by a living wife !!



http://www.thestatesman.net/page.arcview.php?clid=10&id=204162&usrsess=1

Two suspended in custodial suicide case

Statesman News Service

MALDA, Nov 16: Two policemen of the Gazole police station were suspended today in connection with the custodial death of an arrested person in Gazole police station on 14 November. A departmental inquiry has also been initiated in the incident.

In addition to suspending sub-inspector R Islam and another policeman R Das of Gazole police station, the department has also initiated an inquiry against the officer in-charge of Gazole police station and two other policemen, said Malda ASP Mr S Sarkar, today.

The actions come following the death of one Goutam Rabidas alias Bablu in Gazole police custody on 14 November. The police had summoned Goutam to the police station on 12 November after receiving complaints from his in-laws that he was torturing his wife Rakhi for dowry.

Though the police picked up Goutam on Tuesday they suggested the victim's family to settle the matter through discussions and allowed them to hold a conciliatory meeting in their presence at the police station on 14 November. The meeting ended in a stalemate and the complainant refused to accept to accept Goutam, which prompted the police to arrest him.

Goutam's physical condition started to deteriorate after the arrest and he was soon found writhing on lock up floor with froth pouring out of his mouth. He was declared dead in the evening. It was learnt that the man had consumed pesticide inside the police lock up and that landed the police in a serious spot.

A magistrate inquiry was started into the incident yesterday.

FW : Hi, a few months ago I found out from my dad that my mother has BPD.


http://www.medhelp.org/forums/MentalHealth/messages/30954.html

Title: Mother has Borderline Personality Disorder

Hi, a few months ago I found out from my dad that my mother has BPD.

Although I have always known something was wrong with her, the fact that she actually has a BPD syndrome to me. My parents have been divorced for about 7 years now (I just turned 18) and my mother had had custody of me and my younger siblings.

All through my life she has told me how stupid I am, how undeserving and constantly putting me down for everything I do, think, or say- making my life a living hell.

Even when I was little, I would go to school crying in the morning. Although she is hard on my siblings, it is worse with me. I am the oldest girl, as she was the oldest child of ten.

Her parents abused her and her siblings, and I'm wondering if this is why she emotionally abuses me. Because of her impact on my self-esteem, I have gone through eating diorders and therapy. I will soon be able to move out and live with my father until I go to college, but I'm afraid that my mother will still have a big impact on my life afterward.

I'd like us to at least be able to get along for ten minutes without her blowing up at me. I'm also afraid that when I'm a mother, I'll subconsciously do the same things to them as she does to me, even though I love children and can't wait to have them, whereas she didn't want to have us.

Please help tell me what I can do to make this better!!!

Thank you!!

Man booked on wife's complaint


http://www.tribuneindia.com/2007/20071029/region.htm

Man booked : In a dowry case, Anuradha Rani has lodged a complaint against her husband in which, she has accused him of torturing and maltreating her. Dasuya Police booked husband Satpal of Bhatoli under Section 498 A of the IPC last evening.




Bridegroom and family arrested barely hours after wedding on wife's complaint


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Basti, Oct 30: A young bride was given talaq by her husband for failing to meet dowry demands barely two hours after their nikah was solemnised in a village in this Uttar Pradesh district.

Soon after the marriage rituals ended in Ganeshpur village here last night, the groom's family demanded a colour television and a motorcycle and threatened to leave behind the bride if their demand was not met.

With the bride's family failing to provide the television and motorcycle, the groom divorced his newly-wed wife.

A dowry case has been registered against the groom, his father and two sisters who were later arrested. (Agencies)

Published: Tuesday, October 30, 2007


HC cautions against the use of dowry law to settle scores


HC cautions against the use of dowry law to settle scores


New Delhi, Nov 01: Observing that some women file dowry harassment complaints to use the law as a tool to extract money from their spouse, the Delhi High Court today acquitted a man and five of his family members sentenced to two years imprisonment by a trial court for dowry harassment and an attempt to murder his wife.

Cautioning the police and trial courts against "false statements" by dowry harassment complainants, Justice Shiv Narayan Dhingra said "every failed marriage is not a crime, however, the law (498a of IPC) is being used to convert failed marriages into a crime and people use this as tool to extract as much monetary benefit as possible...The firs are withdrawn once the payment is received by the complainant," the judge said.

Pulling up the police for not for not verifying the facts fully before prosecuting the accused in a dowry harassment complaint, the court said "the investigating agency in such (dowry harassment) cases must collect all circumstantial and other evidence in respect of claims made by the complainant."

"The police does not verify any circumstantial evidence not collect any other evidence about the claims made by the complainant...This is resulting into gross misuse of the provisions of law," Justice Dhingra added.

He further said "the trial courts should guard themselves from being swayed by emotions. They should consider entire circumstances and should carefully analyse entire evidence".

The court reversed the trial court's order sentencing Gyan Prakash (husband of complainant Veena), Jeevani Devi (mother-in-law) and four other family members to two years jail term for harassing the complainant and attempting to murder her five years ago.

"It is an unfortunate case where the complainant by making false statement implicated the entire family," he said after finding that Veena's complaint was contradictory with the medical testimony.

Observing that people use the law as tool to extract money from the spouse, the court said that in the present case the complainant along with her father had tried to extract Rs 2.5 lakh from the husband.


http://www.zeenews.com/znnew/articles.asp?aid=404939&sid=REG&sname=

Red-corner notice against Patiala resident [Red corner notice against NRI ?? ]

Red-corner notice against Patiala resident


RAGHAV OHRI
Posted online: Tuesday , October 23, 2007 at 12:00:00
Updated: Tuesday , October 23, 2007 at 12:53:14


Chandigarh, October 22 The High Court has issued a red-corner notice and directed the police to restore an FIR registered against a Patiala resident for disobedience of court orders. The court has also directed the Home Ministry to contact the German Embassy for the person's extradition.

Gurinder Singh Dhillon, accused of raping his wife, was directed to be present in the court for recording a statement. However, he fled to Germany. The FIR was earlier quashed after Gurinder promised to enter into a compromise with his wife. However, later he not only retracted from the compromise, but also did not appear in the court.

The petitioner in the case, the wife of the accused, had pleaded in the court that after her husband left her, her husband's relatives started harassing her. The wife got an FIR registered on charges of cheating, criminal breach of trust, dowry harassment, criminal conspiracy and rape at Police Station, Civil Lines, Patiala, against her husband Gurinder and in-laws.

After being declared a proclaimed offender, Gurinder was arrested at Indira Gandhi International Airport at New Delhi. He was later released on bail by the trail court after remaining in judicial custody for some time.

Meanwhile, the relatives of both the parties intervened and entered into a compromise after Gurinder recorded a statement in the court on February 24, 2006. Then, Gurinder moved the High Court seeking quashing of the FIR registered against him. The FIR was quashed on March 17, 2006.

However, the petitioner moved the court requesting to retain her husband's passport as she suspected that he would try to flee from the country. The court, while disposing of the application, recorded the undertaking of Gurinder that he will appear in the court on the next hearing and make necessary statement for divorce by mutual consent.

Gurinder appeared in the court in Patiala and recorded his statement after which he moved an application praying that the statutory period of six months may be condoned, as he has to go to Germany.

During the same time Gurinder had moved an application in the lower court stating that the statements made by him in the court be withdrawn as they were made under influence. However, the court had dismissed his plea.

The wife then moved the High Court, filing contempt of court case against Gurinder. In wake of this petition, the High Court directed Gurinder to appear in the court on September 24.

However, after that Gurinder did not appear in the court as he had already fled to Germany.

http://www.expressindia.com/latest-news/Redcorner-notice-against-Patiala-resident/231346/


Wife ‘dead’ in Bihar, man ‘sights’ her in Noida

Expressindia » Story

Wife 'dead' in Bihar, man 'sights' her in Noida

Arpit Parashar
Posted online: Wednesday, October 31, 2007 at 12:00:00
Updated: Wednesday, October 31, 2007 at 12:44:30


Noida, October 30 Three years after his in-laws charged him with murdering his wife, a man from Saaran district in Bihar claims his wife is alive and well. In Noida. Pankaj Kumar Singh says Sudha Chaubey, wife of Noida-based Prabhat Kumar, is his wife — Kanchan.

Sudha, in turn, says she has never seen Pankaj; she claims to have been married with Prabhat since 2002 — "we have two children aged four and three".

But Pankaj has little doubt that it is Kanchan, the woman he married in May 2004. Police personnel from both Bihar and Noida are, meanwhile, in a fix.

Sub-Inspector Bharat Prasad Singh of Bihar Police, who came here to investigate the case on Monday, said Pankaj has given them a photograph of his wife, and the woman in the photograph "looks exactly the same" as Sudha. "But Sudha Chaubey says she has all legal documents of her marriage with Prabhat Kumar," the S-I said.

Rewind: Saaran, Bihar

Pankaj Singh married Kanchan, a resident of Banni village in Saaran, on May 9, 2004; and Kanchan went missing within six months. Kanchan's father Gunjeshwar Mishra filed a complaint of dowry harassment and murder. Pankaj and his family members were arrested; they were released on bail later and most charges were dropped.

Amid all this, there was no further news of Kanchan. Until this year.

On September 13, a Saaran district court ordered a case to be registered against Pankaj after Mishra filed an application. But within days Pankaj informed local police that Kanchan was alive. And based in Noida. "Some relatives in Noida told me they had seen Kanchan at a mall in Sector-38A," he said. "They also clicked her picture and forwarded them."

Present tense: Noida

Bihar Police reached Noida on Monday to question Sudha Chaubey, who works as a security guard with Group 4 Securities agency. She is posted at Great India Place Mall in Sector 38A at present. "I'm from Gayaghat village in Muzaffarpur (Bihar); my husband Prabhat Kumar comes from Rampura village in Darbhanga," Sudha said. "We were in the same college and got married in 2002."

Asked about Pankaj's claim, she pointed to her children and countered: "How is it possible to have children of that age if I was with them at the time (2004)?" Sudha said she has been living in Sector-22 for the past four years. Her husband Prabhat Kumar runs a vegetable shop here. "We are being harassed," he said. "We have all documents to prove our marriage."

Sudha was detained at Sector-39. The police station's SHO, Anil Samania, said, "We could not differentiate from the photograph." He said the court would now have to decide the matter.

The Bihar police have taken Sudha into custody and will take her to Saaran for further inquiry.


http://www.expressindia.com/latest-news/Wife-dead-in-Bihar-man-sights-her-in-Noida/234229/

Grooms beaten up over dowry, policeman killed


Grooms beaten up over dowry, policeman killed

7 Nov 2007, 0125 hrs IST ,Lalit Kumar, TNN

MEERUT: In a bizarre incident, one policeman was brick batted to death, 6 policemen injured and at least one person sustained a grievous bullet wound, when the police tried to rescue two grooms and their kin held captive by the relatives of the two brides over dowry.

At least two dozen bullets were fired by the residents of Sival Khas village, to which both the brides, who are sisters, belong.

The two grooms, who are also brothers and belong to Jeyi Village of Meerut, were shut in a room and soundly thrashed. Their faces were blackened with 'kaajal,' and they were made to squat holding their ears, and slapping each other up.

A police officer said, "It all started with the baraat of grooms Ghaffar and Lataqat arriving to the house of one Ibn-e-Hasan, who is father of the brides Asma and Nazma. The two marriages were formalized by the evening. But, when it came to the brides departing with the grooms, there was a dispute about the dowry. The grooms were given Rs 26,000 each and the keys of two new motorcycles as dowry. But, they and their relatives said they had been promised cars and Rs 1 lakh each. The arguments soon became heated, and the brides' relatives shut the grooms, their father and four other relatives in a room and thrashed them."

Then, said the police, the village elders sat in a panchayat, and formally decided that the brides' father had spent Rs 1.50 lakh more than the grooms' side. So, the grooms should not only return this money but also pay a "fine" of Rs 5 lakh to the brides' father.

Under coercion, the outnumbered grooms and their kin agreed. So, the captors released two of the seven to arrange the money.

They were given till 11 on Tuesday morning as the banks would open only at 10 am. Meanwhile, after the grooms were taken captive, their relatives informed the police. And, to prevent the captives from serious injury, or worse, about 20 policemen came to rescue them.

But, these policemen were also beaten up and stoned. While constable Ompal was killed in the attack, half a dozen other policemen were injured. Even the rifles of 6 policemen were snatched, and some bullet magazines were seen strewn around.

Some time after midnight, said Meerut police zone inspector general, VK Gupta, "It was learnt that there was senior danger to the lives of the captives. And, the captors would not easily let them go because they stood to lose money.

So, units of the Provincial Armed Constabulary were called in. And, the grooms and their relatives were finally rescued. We later arrested 7 persons for murder, attempted murder, illegal confinement, rioting and other counts. He said a hunt is on for others involved in the incident. And, they would soon be nabbed.

But, there was heavy police and paramilitary deployment at the village as a precautionary measure.

http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/India/Grooms_beaten_up_over_dowry_policeman_killed/articleshow/2523678.cms

If a woman complaints of dowry harassment, the police arrest her husband and parents in-law without any investigation

"....If a woman complaints of dowry harassment, the police arrest her husband and parents in-law without any investigation.."

Men in Kerala unite against harassing wives
Don Sebastian
Wednesday, November 07, 2007  03:04 IST

Protection group alleges misuse of dowry act by women, demands a panel for men on lines of National Commission for Women

THIRUVANANTHAPURAM: Indian society does not seem to be patriarchal to some people at least. They think it's a hard world out there where men are hounded by their wives cashing in on the rigorous dowry laws of the country. A group of men have formed an association — Kerala Men's Rights Protection Committee — to voice their protest against a legal system "biased to the fair sex". There are over 100 members in the Kochi-based association.

"Men face a lot of harassment under Section 498A of the Indian Penal Code. If a woman complaints of dowry harassment, the police arrest her husband and parents in-law without any investigation. The only thing that matters is the woman's statement. Most of the time, innocent in-laws and relatives are named as accused," said Sivan Cheppala, general secretary of the two-month-old registered association.

The controversial section of the IPC, inserted in 1983, reads: "Whoever, the husband or the relative of the husband of a woman, subjects such women to cruelty shall be punished with imprisonment for a term which may extend to three years and shall also be liable to fine." The offence is cognizant, non-compoundable and non-bailable.

"There should have a proper inquiry before someone is booked under Section 498A. We also need a non-judicial forum to discuss family issues and only those cases in which there is no other way but divorce should come under the purview of family courts. Around 900 cases have come before Ernakulam family court since January. There has been as many instances of invoking Section 498A," Sivan said.

The association also demands the setting up of men's commissions on the lines of the National Commission for Women and its state counterparts. "When women's organizations affiliated to political parties take up domestic issues, they act as a judicial body. But they are not concerned about any proof supporting the plaint. Women cells of the police are no better. There should be representation for men when marriage-related issues are considered," he added.

"If things go on like this, men will have to go back to the age of untouchability for fear of touching the women. We have to unite against this trend," he added. The association has members from all walks of life. There are youngsters and elders, bachelors and husbands as its members. They are on a membership campaign till December 30.

The peeved men have company elsewhere. 498A.org, a website which attempts to "create awareness among Indian nationals about the misuse of  IPC 498A.

http://www.dnaindia.com/report.asp?newsid=1132057




Engineer held in dowry case

http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/Nagpur_engineer_held_over_dowry_demand/articleshow/2539243.cms

Engineer held in dowry case


14 Nov 2007, 0244 hrs IST, TNN

NAGPUR: A BSNL engineer was arrested on Tuesday for allegedly torturing his wife for dowry. Accused Vijay Titarmare's parents were also arrested by Gittikhadan police.


Sources said that complainant Preeti Titarmare, in her statement, has also alleged that Vijay had married another woman and also tortured her in a similar way. Preeti also charged Vijay with forcing her to abort a two-month-old foetus against her wishes.

Police said Preeti was married to BSNL engineer Vijay Titarmare, who is posted at the Kamptee Road office, on July 7 this year. Before marriage, Preeti's father had reportedly given Rs 1.50 lakh to Vijay's father Shyamdeo, who is also an accused in the case along with his wife and Preeti's mother-in-law Manda. After getting married, Preeti went to stay at the Chandan Nagar residence of her husband and in-laws. Soon after, the couple went to Vaishnodevi for a pilgrimage. On their return from Vaishnodevi, Vijay asked Preeti to demand the expenses of the trip from her parents. This soured the relationship as Preeti's father had already shelled out the pre-nuptial dowry for buying furniture and constructing the house.

Preeti also told police that after the marriage Vijay and his parents constantly tortured her physically and mentally and demanded a hefty sum as dowry. After the abortion, Preeti had gone to her father's residence. But on October 20, Vijay went to pick up Preeti and allegedly threatened her father. On October 31, Preeti lodged a complaint against her husband and in-laws at Gittikhadan police station.



NRI groom, parents arrested for demanding dowry


http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/NRI_groom_parents_arrested_for_demanding_dowry/articleshow/2493287.cms

NRI groom, parents arrested for demanding dowry


26 Oct 2007, 1844 hrs IST ,PTI

PATIALA: A US-based NRI and his parents were on Friday arrested for allegedly demanding dowry just before the marriage ceremony was to be solemnised, saying that they can not take the bride with them "just like that".

The parents of the groom Gurpreet Singh, a US-based doctor, allegedly asked Rs 50 lakh as dowry from the girl's parents just before the start of the marriage ceremony saying their son was earning Rs 7 lakh a month and they could not take their daughter to the US "just like that", police said.

The 'baraat' had come from Kaddon village in Ludhiana's Doraha.

Shocked at their last minute demand, the parents of the girl - also a doctor - pleaded but they refused to relent.

The groom and his parents, Bhajan Singh and Harjeet Kaur, were arrested following a complaint from the girl's side, they said.

The girl's parents said they had already fulfilled all the genuine demands but could not meet this one. The failure to reach an agreement by the two sides led to a scuffle as some girl's relatives got angry at the unreasonable demand.

Someone from the bride's side informed the police who arrived at the spot and rounded up the groom and his parents.


Saturday, November 17, 2007

Y Abraham Ajit's saga continues


Y Abraham Ajit's earlier case ref. Y. Abraham Ajith and Ors. v. Inspector of Police, Chennai and Anr. (2004 (8) SCC 100), is a cornerstone case on Criminal jurisdiction – especially 498a cases. 

Now Abraham Ajit seems to be continuing his saga at the civil / family court


YA Ajit Vs Sofana Ajit - Appeal (civil) 4110 of 2007


http://vinayak.wordpress.com/2007/11/18/ya-ajit-vs-sofana-ajit-appeal-civil-4110-of-2007/

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Saturday, November 10, 2007

CAN WE MAKE A LEGAL WILL BEFORE DEATH


1. yes. A will is always made BEFORE death !! :-) how can you make it AFTER death ??

2. No jokes ..... As long as you have title to assets, the same can be testated by a will BEFORE DEATH

3. How ? etc... please see below

Wills Under Indian Succession Act, 1925
http://www.helplinelaw.com/docs/main.php3?id=WISA1

Will means the legal declaration of the intention of a person with respect to his property, which he desires to take effect after his death. It is a unilateral document and takes effect after the death of the person making it. It can be revoked or altered by the maker of it at any time he is competent to dispose of his property.

A will made by a Hindu, Buddhist, Sikh or Jain is governed by the provisions of the Indian Succession Act, 1925. However Mohammedan are not governed by the Indian Succession Act, 1925 and they can dispose their property according to Muslim Law.


WHO CAN MAKE A WILL
http://www.helplinelaw.com/docs/main.php3?id=WISA2

    * Every person who is of sound mind and is not a minor can make a will.
    * Persons who are deaf or dumb or blind can make a will provided they are able to know what they do by it.
    * A person who is ordinarily insane may make a will during an interval in which he is of sound mind.
    * No person can make a will while he is in such a state of mind, whether arising from intoxication or from illness or from any other cause, that he does not know what he is doing


EXECUTION OF A WILL
http://www.helplinelaw.com/docs/main.php3?id=WISA3

Every person, not being a soldier employed in an expedition or engaged in warfare, or an airman so employed or engaged, or a marine at sea shall execute his will accordingly.

* He shall sign or fix his mark to the will or it shall be signed by some other person in his presence and by his direction

* The signature or mark should be so placed that it shall appear that it was intended thereby to give effect to the writing as a will

* The will shall be attested by two or more witnesses, each of whom has seen the testator sign or affix his mark on the will or Has seen some other person sign the will, in the presence and by the direction of the testator or Has received from the testator a personal acknowledgement of his signature or mark, or of the signature such other person;

Each of the witnesses shall sign the will in the presence of the testator, but it shall not be necessary that more than one witnesses be present at the same time, and no particular form of attestation is necessary.

* Declaration of intention.


WHAT PROPERTY CAN BE DISPOSED BY A WILL

Any movable or immovable property can be disposed of by a will by its owner.
 

BENEFICIARY UNDER A WILL
http://www.helplinelaw.com/docs/main.php3?id=WISA4

Any person capable of holding property can be devisee under a will and therefore a minor, lunatic, a corporation, a Hindu deity or any other juristic person can be a devisee.

RESTRICTIONS:

The Indian Succession Act imposes restrictions in certain cases.

1. Transfer to person by particular description, who is not in existence at testator's death.

Where a bequest is made to a person by a particular description, and there is no person in existence at the testator's death who answers that description, the bequest is void.

For example, If A bequests 1000 rupees to the eldest son of B. At the death of A, the testator, B has no son. The bequest is void.

2. Transfer to person not in existence at testator's death subject to prior bequest.

Where a bequest is made to a person not in existence at the time of the testator's death, subject to a prior bequest contained in the will, the later bequest shall be void, unless it comprises the whole of the remaining interest of the testator in the thing bequeathed.

For example, If property is bequeathed to A for life, and after his death to his eldest son for life, and after the later's death to his eldest son. At the time of the testator's death, A has no son. Here the bequest to A's eldest son is a bequest to a person not in existence at the testators death. It is not a bequest of the whole interest that remains to the testator. The bequest to A's eldest son for life is void.

3. Transfer made to create perpetuity.

No bequest is valid whereby the vesting of the thing bequeathed may be delayed beyond the lifetime of one or more persons living at the testator's death and the minority of some person who shall be in existence at the expiration of that period, and to whom, if he attains full age, the thing bequeathed is to belong.

For example, A fund is given to A for his life and after his death to B for his life; and after B's death to such of the sons of B as shall first attain the age of 25. A and B survive the testator. The son of B who shall first attain the age of 25 may be a son born after the death of the testator; and such son may not attain age of 25 until more than 18 years have elapsed from the death of and B. The vesting of fund may thus be delayed beyond the lifetime of A and B and the minority of the sons of B. The bequest after B's death is void.

4. Transfer to a class some of whom may come under above rules.

If a bequest is made to a class of persons with regard to some of whom it is inoperative by reasons of the fact that the person is not in existence at the testator's death or to create perpetuity, such bequest shall be void in regard to those persons only and not in regard to the whole class.

A fund is bequeathed to A for life, and after his death to all his children who shall attain the age of 25. A survives the testator, and has some children living at the testator's death. Each child of A's living at the testator's death must attain the age of 25 (if at all) within the limits allowed for a bequest. But A may have children after the testator's decease, some of whom may not attain the age of 25 until more than 18 years have elapsed after the decease of A. the bequest to A's children, therefore, is inoperative as to any child born after the testator's death; and in regard to those who do not attain the age of 25 within 18 years after A' death, but is operative in regard to the other children of A.

5 Transfer to take effect on failure of prior Transfer.

Where by reason of any of the rules contained in sections 113 and 114 and bequest in favour of a person of a class of persons is void in regard to such person or the whole of such class, any bequest contained in the same will and intended to take effect after or upon failure of such prior bequest is also void.

A fund is bequeathed to A for his life, and after his death to such of his sons and shall first attain the age of 25, for his life, and after the decease of such son to B. A and B survive the testator. The bequest to B is intended to take effect after the bequest to such of the sons of A as shall first attain the age of 25.The bequest to B is void.

6 Effect of direction for accumulation.

Where the terms of a will direct that the income arising from any property shall be accumulation either wholly or in part during any period longer than a period of eighteen years from the death of the testator, such direction shall, save as hereinafter provided be void to the extent to which the period during which the accumulation is directed exceeds the aforesaid period, and at the end of such period of eighteen years the property and the income thereof shall be disposed of as if the period during which the accumulation has been directed to be made had elapsed.

However, this will not affect any direction for accumulation for the purpose of -

   1.       The payment of the debts of the testator or any other person taking any interest under the will; or

   2.       The provision of portions for children or remoter issue of the testator or of any other person taking any interest under the will; or

   3.       The preservation or maintenance of any property bequeathed; and such direction may be made accordingly. This rule provides that accumulation of income arising from any property bequeathed should come to an end or be determinable on the beneficiaries attaining vested interests within the perpetuity period. If the direction in the will for accumulation exceeds 18 years, the direction will be void to the extent of the period which exceeds 18 years. At the end of 18 years, the property and the income will be payable as per directions in the will. However, this rule is not applicable where the direction in a will is for the purposes of payment of the testator's debts or of any other person taking interest under the will or for the raising portion for any child, children or remoter issue of the testator or for preserving or maintaining houses and tenements or charity.


REVOCATION OF A WILL / LOSS OF A WILL
http://www.helplinelaw.com/docs/main.php3?id=WISA5


A will can be revoked in the following manner

   1.  By execution of a subsequent will

   2. By some writing and declaring an intention to revoke the will

   3. By burning of the will

   4. By tearing of the will

   5. Otherwise destroying the will

When a will is evoked by a subsequent will, the will so revoked will have no operation
 

LOSS OF A WILL

If a will is lost it will be presumed to be revoked. If the will was seen with the testator, but could not be found after the death testator, it will be presumed that the same has been revoked by the testator by destroying the same.
 


regards
vinayak




>
>CAN WE MAKE A LEGAL WILL BEFORE DEATH
>Posted by: "SATTU 2007" sattudelhi@yahoo.com   sattudelhi
>Thu Nov 8, 2007 10:00 am (PST)
>
>is it possible when the matter is subjudice can we make a will before death
>
>if yes then how
>if no then why
>
>SATTU
>9868157929
>26197790
>26193868
>SATPAL@IIFT.AC.IN

I'm new here...but my problem isn't


The "domestic violence industry" has taken over homes in the west :-( Why else do people STOP marrying !! - yep, marriages are at an all time low in the west ....

Why else is sex paraded and paddled in the streets ? because having a wife is too costly and too risky in most SO CALLED DEVELOPED nations of the west :-(

In most western democracies the native while population is dropping  - yeah negative growth rates as being legally married and having children is RISKY !!

Governments are giving every possible incentive to have children, including tax cuts, but governments are still unable to control the feminatzis and are loosing the numbers game to migrants (who haven't FULLY accepted the feminatzi culture)

What is new or rather recent, is that the same stupid Domestic violence law is being exported to the EAST ! - yea including punya bharath




regards
Vinayak




------- forwarded message ------------

Subject: I'm new here...but my problem isn't

Greetings all,

I am a victim of the Domestic Violence industry, because I am a man and a woman alleged abuse, I am automatically deemed Guilty until proven innocent.

It started a few years back when a friend (neighbor) told me what she just talked to my wife about, how she was going to leave me, take our children and make false allegations of abuse so the state would shelter her, find her a new home for her and our 3 children. I dismissed that as 'talk' because of a previous setup where her 'friend' became aware of a lawsuit I had going on which stood to bring our family money like we haven't seen in a very long time.

Her friend's goal was to divide and conquer, and that she did, she convinced my then wife that I was a danger to her, the kids and that she didn't need to stay with me, so she moved out, what I didn't know until only very recently is that this woman's son-in-law was seeing my wife!!

So along with what a neighbor tells me, I'm taking care of our 3 children all on my own, running errands one fine day my neighbor says the sheriff was looking for me, I laugh it off thinking haha very funny neighbor, but when they say "I'm serious" I think, I better call and see what's up...thinking that she's filed divorce (which at that point I had NO objection to) I call and they ask me 'very strangely' was I home now?...I say yes and they say stay there and within minutes a sheriff shows up at my door serving a restraining order, I think...ok, no problem I'll stay away, but he says no sir you have to leave this house (my house!!) after this it just gets worse, I'm homeless without money cause I just paid every bill for our house, stocked up on food I have $8 to my name.

I arrive in court 10 days later, thinking of all the things the injunction alleges, this would be easy to prove she's lying....WRONG! that judge believes every single word she says but wait it still gets worse!!...later that day I send a friend to collect my credit card from her (which was in her name under my account) and within minutes the sheriff's back out to arrest me for threatening to kill her??!!I'm thinkin WTF!!

So because of my emotional state at the time of arrest (a complete WRECK) they baker act me, strip me of my clothes I'm in a padded cell being watched every single minute for days...then after I figure how to get them to move me to a regular cell, I spend a total of a month when the state of Florida drops all charges as 'unfounded'. ...GREAT! ...I get out of jail BROKE(er) than I was because they take your money, I now have to deal with rent, bills which havent been paid over the time I was away, almost become homeless once again.

I think, ok the worst is over she got what she wanted...fine. ..NO!...not quite, then I arrange for visitation with my 3 children as per the injunction, she more or less says F* YOU!, so I file a motion of contempt, the judge (different judge) tells her she has 48 hours to comply or faces 60 days in county jail.

That visit goes well (so I thought), next she's alleging something I'll be dealing with time and time again...our special needs kids have specific diets, they get sick otherwise, she claims I fed them anything I wanted and they got sick, so I look like the badguy again.

Failing to meet the scheduled visitations becomes TREND for her, excuse after excuse, all of them the judge buys, so when I put an end to this happy horse shit by filing a motion to specify the frequency/duration of visits, it's granted and she's told this is what she must do!

Ok..we done now?...Ummm Nope!

I move out of county and file a motion to allow visitations with our children where I am now (still in the state and all) judge says ok, but....she has the right to inspect the living arrangements there, I think...ok, that's fair...she could come ANYTIME, she doesn't so I have my friend e-mail pics of the house (they're selling it so the WHOLE house is there to see).

She makes up excuses again, I think..ya know what, F*K it let me rent a car drive down, rent a hotel and I'll visit in town. So does that make her happy Nooooo.

Every visit some new complaint and the last one I had was a shocker!!!.. ...

They both keep trying to seperate me from by legal actions, allegations (latest one was sexual abuse of my 4 year old daughter) and mistreating our two boys who both are special needs children. which still hasnt finished being investigated, I was told I won't see paperwork for that till December, right about time to mess up my christmas vacation with out children...BRAVO!

This is what I get for not filing abandonment charges when she started stepping out on me with the boyfriend, meanwhile I haven't seen or talked to our children in 2 months!! speaking of which, she and I did have an agreement to let me talk with out kids every single night at 7PM, then months ago when her latest attack started, nobody's home!!....and our poor kids are probably wondering where I am and do I still love them, miss them, want to be with them....THATS the part that tears me to pieces!! and she could have done this soooo much nicer, sure leave go with the b/f even take our children if that makes you happy, but for the love of God let me see them!!

All I can say now is, I'm looking for a lawyer who wants to take on this case with the little bit of money I now have,,and as for her....Get Some Help!!

Anyone wants to see my website I made to help others, go to http://www.FalselyA ccusedOfDomestic Violence. com share your stories too, I'm sure there's someone out there with a much worse one than mine.

Best wishes,

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Monday, November 05, 2007

Husbands bend law on maintenance


Comments :

On one side Husbands are crying that usurious maintenance claims are being made by women. There are umpteen cases here in this forum where men have been slapped VERY hight maintenance, amounts disproportionate to their salaries.

On the other side women's rights lawyers are cribbing that women are NOT getting maintenance. I.e. some ordinary men have found ways to reduce or deny maintenance

Where lies the truth ?

I suppose men have to really group together and find out the truth behind such news reports ? One has to get the opposite party's view - husband's view in these cases.

Husbands have a right to know, the truth on maintenance... and how it can be paid / reduced...

============ news item =========

http://www.telegraphindia.com/1071103/asp/calcutta/story_8423194.asp

Husbands bend law on maintenance

Case I: Anita Sen (name changed) went to her parents' house for a week with her seven-year-old daughter. When she returned, her husband turned her out. A couple of weeks later, he filed a desertion case against Anita. He even denied her maintenance, saying she had left home on her own.

Case II: Ragini Mitra (name changed) was sent to her parents' home by her husband while she was pregnant. And he refused to take her back after she gave birth to a daughter. Later, he filed a desertion case against Ragini and denied her maintenance.

Legal experts say many husbands are not providing maintenance to their wives after dumping them, twisting rulings of Calcutta High Court and the Supreme Court.

The high court and then the apex court had ruled that a husband is not bound to pay maintenance to his wife if she leaves him "voluntarily, without any provocation".

Soma Banerjee, a lawyer in Sealdah court, said: "Before leaving her husband's home, my client Anita did not have any clue that she would not be allowed to return. There was no altercation between her and her husband. Nor did she go to her parents' house against his wishes. In fact, her husband was very cordial to her when she left for her parents' home."

But when she returned, "her husband straightaway refused to let her in. He asked her to stay back at her parents' house. A couple of weeks later, she learnt that her husband had filed a desertion suit against her", Banerjee said.

And while the case was being heard, Anita's husband refused to pay her maintenance, saying she had left him voluntarily.

Like Anita's husband, there are many who are taking advantage of the court rulings, making out a case of desertion where there is none.

Agrees CPM legislator and former president of the state women's commission Bharati Mutsuddi. She, however, feels the women are falling into the trap because of a lack of awareness about their rights.


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OT. Google - English to Indian Languages translation . MAY benefit new victims who are NOT fluent in English



Google - English to Indian Languages translation


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Regards
Vinayak

Sunday, November 04, 2007

A failed marriage is not a crime however, the provisions of Section 498A are being used to convert failed marriages into a crime


"....A failed marriage is not a crime however, the provisions of Section 498A are being used to convert failed marriages into a crime and the people are using this as tool to extract as much monetary benefit as possible.

In many cases, where FIRs are filed under Section 498A IPC, petitions are being filed under Section 482 Cr.P.C. for quashing of FIRs after settlements between the parties and the allegations made of cruelties etc. are withdrawn the moment a lump sum payment is received.

Involving each of the family members of the husband is another arm in the armory of the complainants of failed marriages. Not only close relatives but distant relatives and even neighbours are being implicated under Section 498A and other provisions of IPC in cases of failed marriages.

The Courts must be very cautious during trials of such offences. In all these cases in the name of investigation, except recording statement of complainant and her few relatives nothing is done by police.

The police does not verify any circumstantial evidence nor collect any other evidence about the claims made by the complainant. No evidence about giving of dowry or resources of the complainant's family claiming spending of huge amounts is collected by the police. This all is resulting into gross misuse of the provisions of law. ..."

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