the day men face arrest with a smile, the SurpanakAs loose the golden bullet in 498a cases

Getting mentally and morally prepared to get
arrested makes a world of difference

This is my personal experience

Initially I was scared of arrest

Initially I was scared of passport impounding

Now I tell my wife .."Hi.., when are you
planning my arrest ??...", the day I get
arrested you loose all chances of getting a
divorce or any CHILD SUPPORT .... " .."..how
can an un employed support anyone ??.." and so
on

My wife who ran around trying to arrest me, my
wife who was ready to pay money to get me
arrested, is not trying any of these stunts !!

As many here and in the Chennai SIF know, I do
NOT even have an anticipatory bail

As many here and in chennai SIF know, I have
been writing to the police to get details of my
case !!

All these un scrupulous wifes want money and
vengeance

Actually over time they want MORE money,
faster divorce (meaning more money making
opportunities) and re start the clock

they will NOT cut the golden goose

It just takes that extra bit of preparation
and preparing the folks at home to face the
reality

I am NOT trying to preach, but just sharing my
experience

for e.g. Gandhi ji turned the fear of arrest
into a PRIDE - getting arrested for swaraj and
the British raj lost its biggest weapon

The day husbands and their family readily
accept arrest .... the day men and their
families are ready to shed false sense of
social stigma / pride etc and come out in the
open and get ready to face jail with a smiling
face, the unscrupulous wives will loose their
golden bullet in 498a cases

Just take this forum .... Most men here are
techies, MBS and professionals who will anyhow
get employed EVEN if they loose a job on false
charges

It is 10 times better to get arrested for a
few days than pay lakhs and lakhs to the
surpanakas


regards

Vinayak




>
>Re: COMPROMISE is the new menace
>Posted by: "Vernal Greens"
>Sat Oct 13, 2007 6:20 pm (PST)
>
>Has anybody ever compared SC with authors?
>Both write something that appeal to the
>masses, but both feel helpless when it comes
>to implementing their ideas. Isn't it so?
>Correct me if I am wrong.
>
>>
>>On 10/13/07, gopelalwani wrote:
>>
>> http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/articlesho
w/msid-1797852,curpg-1.cms
>>
>>'No criminal complaint in civil dispute'
>>
>>Dhananjay Mahapatra
>>
>>[ 24 Jul, 2006 0040hrs ISTTIMES NEWS
>>NETWORK ]
>>
>>NEW DELHI: In a majority of civil isputes
>>involving a high stake - be it family
>>divisions, inheritance, will, property or
>>fight between two companies - the tendency
>>is to lodge criminal complaints against
>>rivals in addition to filing of suits or
>>initiation of arbitration proceedings and
>>other civil remedies.

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